As Assistants, we know how busy and fast-paced our environments can be. It’s easy to overlook the importance of communication and the critical role it plays in how we are perceived and how we connect with others. Communication truly bridges our thoughts, emotions, and intentions with the world around us. For many of us, communication is the skill that sets us apart in our roles and highlights the value we bring to our organizations.
In this article, we’ll explore the following:
The Essence of Personal Communication: Understanding the unique elements that shape how we communicate.
The Power of Self-Awareness in the Assistant Role: Exploring tools and techniques to better understand your communication style.
Effective Interpersonal Communication: Learning how to tailor your communication to others for more productive conversations.
Adapting and Evolving: Recognizing communication as a dynamic skill and how to refine it over time.
We all have a unique communication style. But how often do we pause to reflect on how we express ourselves? How do we convey our ideas, and how do others receive them? Together, let’s explore how we can start discovering our unique communication styles and leveraging them for success.
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Discovering your unique communication style starts with understanding that every one of us communicates in a way that is distinct. Over time, we build on our strengths, refine our approach, and adapt to new experiences. Our communication styles are influenced by our beliefs, values, and even our past challenges. To communicate effectively, we need to embrace these personal traits and harness their power to make meaningful connections.
As Assistants, self-awareness is a critical skill. To mirror an Executive’s communication preferences, we first need to know ourselves. We must understand our communication styles and the adjustments we need to make to work seamlessly with others.
This journey of self-discovery requires introspection and a willingness to learn. Tools like personality tests, love language assessments, and the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator can provide valuable insights into our communication strengths and preferences. It’s also helpful to learn more about your Executive’s communication style, perhaps by reviewing their results from similar assessments.
For example, I once felt uneasy meeting new people. But a personality test revealed that I have a natural ability to make others feel at ease. Since then, I’ve leaned into this strength, which has transformed how I approach networking and building relationships. It’s these moments of self-awareness that allow us to grow and refine how we communicate.
Understanding our strengths is just one side of the coin. We also need to identify areas for improvement. By recognizing our weaknesses, we can take proactive steps to ensure they don’t hinder our communication effectiveness.
Self-awareness lays the groundwork, but the next step is learning how to communicate effectively with others. Communication is a two-way street, and understanding the person on the other side of the conversation is just as important as knowing yourself.
When we’re managing multiple priorities, it’s tempting to rush through conversations. However, taking the time to recognize the other person’s communication preferences can transform a conversation from frustrating to productive. For instance, someone with a direct, dominant personality might prefer concise, to-the-point communication, while a detail-oriented individual might appreciate a thorough explanation. Adapting to these preferences ensures your message is not just heard but understood.
Communication is not a fixed skill—it’s dynamic and ever-changing. As we grow in our roles, develop new skills, and gain confidence, our communication styles naturally evolve. This evolution is a testament to our adaptability and commitment to excellence.
Seeking feedback, staying open to change, and aligning with the needs of your Executive and colleagues are all ways to ensure your communication remains effective and impactful. It’s about staying mindful of your approach and continuously improving.
As Assistants, we know that communication is a game-changer. It opens doors, builds strong relationships, and paves the way for personal and professional success. By investing time in understanding our unique communication styles and adapting to the needs of others, we can unlock the true power of communication.
If you’re ready to take your communication skills to the next level, check out our Confident Communicator Course at The EA Campus. Empowering yourself with these skills will help you not only lead but also leave a lasting impact in your role.
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